To...married moments..

Sorry Dan..Im about to put you on blast haha.. but you deserve it!! lol jk..

So this morning, I actually woke up early for once and felt great! I had plenty of things to do in the morning without feeling rushed or anything. I cleaned our bedroom and took a shower and whatever.. Dan kissed me after I got out of the shower.. then he went downstairs and came up again and kissed me again to say goodbye (this is crucial to the story lol). It was a nice morning UNTIL...

I have about 10 minutes before I have to leave so I opened the fridge to grab my lunch and the light was off.. I pull out the mac and cheese me and Dan made last night and it had dew/moisture on the lid. So yeah I freaked out.. a stupid broken refrigerator. I felt everything else and it was cold so I figured it had just broke. I call Winfield and told them my fridge might be broke and I get the answering service..they tell me they will call me at 8am. Well I gotta get to work so I start moving everything outta the way to prepare for a new fridge to be brought in the kitchen. I take all the pictures and magnets off.. I take the bread box off of the fridge. I move all the furniture in the back to clear room since thats how they had to bring it in last time it broke. I got bags ready to put everything in it so that maintenance can transfer all of our food easily.
I am trying to call Dan the whole time but he wouldnt talk everytime I answered, which made me more mad. lol. Finally he texted, whats up? I told him our fridge broke and I called Winfield. Hes like no it didnt break, the lights out. I was like the food is warm! (I lied a little lol) Hes like Erica, when I opened the refrigerator this morning, I heard the light bulb pop and it went out.

Yeah.. so apparently when Dan came up right before he left and he kissed me, he could have told me about the light.. buuuut he didnt. Whats up MEN? lol Seriously! After all that, It was like 2 minutes till 8 am and I have to be at work at 8. Normally I wouldnt care because I can use my lunch time to fill in for the minutes I missed but I had a dentist appointment today during my lunch so that wouldnt work. After lots of texting and bitching on my part, he apologized which made me feel better. But seriously, all of that could have been avoided if he told me right when it happened. You would think after 9 years of being with him he would know me by now lol and know that I would react that way if the light was out. Wow. what a morning.

I called Winfield a few hours ago because no one ever called me and they are like yeah.. maintenance went to your house and it was a broken light bulb, your refrigerator is working fine. HAHA! Whoops.

So that was a fun morning. lol Im pretty much okay as soon as Dan apologizes so for me it didnt take long to snap back into a good mood. I was just frustrated because it seems like the only time we fight it comes down to lack of communication... and this situation was no different. Maybe I should have asked him if anythings going on before he left.. but how would I know? I dunno, Im just trying to figure out the way men think and work and its not workin too well. Guys are simple creatures but I still havent figured out WHY they do some of the crazy stuff they do lol. Im so glad Im a woman! :)